Unfortunately, some women must go through this entire life-altering experience without their baby's father. Because of this, we have purposely avoided using gender-specific pronouns in this book, opting to use more all-inclusive language in support of situations where all "birthing partners" can be involved. Whether husband or partner in marriage, boyfriend, girlfriend...or just friend: Your involvement is warmly welcomed by your doctor or nurse-midwife, and the folks here at BeBeVu!